Fitting In vs. Belonging: The True Cause of ADHD Burnout
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Fitting In vs. Belonging: The True Cause of ADHD Burnout

A neuroinclusive look at ADHD burnout and the crucial difference between "fitting in" and "belonging." This post explores why the "after-school collapse" is not a behavior issue but a sign of burnout from masking. Learn how creating a sense of true belonging is the key to supporting neurodivergent children and preventing emotional and mental overwhelm.

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Science, Stigma, and Neurodivergence: A Neuroinclusive Look at the MAHA Report
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Science, Stigma, and Neurodivergence: A Neuroinclusive Look at the MAHA Report

A neuroinclusive analysis and fact-check of the MAHA (Make America Healthy Again) report. This post deconstructs the report's claims about ADHD and autism, reframing the 'crisis' narrative through a neurodiversity-affirming lens. We explore the myths of overdiagnosis, the real story behind rising diagnosis rates (diagnostic equity), and push back against the stigma and parent-blaming.

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Screen Time & Neurodivergence: A Different Perspective on a Familiar Debate

Screen Time & Neurodivergence: A Different Perspective on a Familiar Debate

Does screen time affect autistic youth differently? A 2023 study reveals that unlike neurotypical youth, there is no significant link between screen time and anxiety or depression in autistic youth. This post explores why screens can be a tool for connection, joy, and regulation for neurodivergent individuals, and advocates for a functional, individualized approach to screen time limits.

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The Eye Contact Plot Twist: Who Really Feels the Pressure?
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The Eye Contact Plot Twist: Who Really Feels the Pressure?

Who is truly responsible for the anxiety around eye contact? A 2023 study reveals a plot twist: neurotypical adults may feel more stress than autistic individuals when eye contact isn't returned. This post explores the Double Empathy Problem and reframes the eye contact dilemma from an autistic deficit to a shared, relational dynamic.

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It's Not Procrastination: Deconstructing Why You're Stuck
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It's Not Procrastination: Deconstructing Why You're Stuck

Feeling stuck? Learn why "procrastination" is often the wrong word for neurodivergent individuals. We explore the real barriers behind that feeling—from task initiation hurdles and perfectionism to interoception—and we offer compassionate, coach-guided questions to help you understand your brain and move forward.

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Dancing Between Daydreams and Focus: Unraveling the Neurodivergent Brain's Rhythm
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Dancing Between Daydreams and Focus: Unraveling the Neurodivergent Brain's Rhythm

Dive into the captivating realm where daydreams and focused attention vie for the spotlight in the intricate dance of your brain. Imagine your mind as a dance floor, with the Default Mode Network (DMN) orchestrating the waltz of daydreams, while the Central Executive Network (CEN) strides in with purpose for external tasks. Explore how this dance takes on a unique rhythm in neurodivergent brains, such as ADHD and Autism, and how understanding it can become your greatest ally. Join us on this journey of self-reflection, self-compassion, and mastering the cerebral dance! 🕺💡

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Back to School: Tips for Neurodivergent Families
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Back to School: Tips for Neurodivergent Families

I had the pleasure of writing another article for the beautiful Dorado Bound Magazine, where I share some Tips for Neurodivergent Families and Schools.

You can read the latest edition of the magazine and the article here.

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What is Support System Coaching?
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What is Support System Coaching?

Our Support System Coaching helps you develop the tools to create an environment that best supports that person in your life. Learn more about Support System Coaching.

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We are Better Community Certified!
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We are Better Community Certified!

Harmonic Divergence has been certified by the Better Community Project; a business certification protocol for improved neurodivergent and in particular autistic inclusion in community spaces. Not only is Harmonic Divergence certified as a Better Community Project Business, but I am now an Ambassador for the Better Community Project. I will serve as a liaison between the project, Puerto Rico, Latin America and the Spanish speaking community.

Do you run a business/organization and would you like to learn more about how you can support the neurodivergent community?

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How Neuroinclusive Coaching can benefit teenagers and young adults
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How Neuroinclusive Coaching can benefit teenagers and young adults

As teens and young adults work towards independence, difficulties related to executive skills become pronounced, creating tensions and blocking progress. A coach can support the development of strategies and skills to work toward autonomy and independence, helping remove barriers and easing family relationships. Coaching facilitates the transition from a kid relying on their parents/guardians to manage (or micromanage them) and a young adult who learns how to be more autonomous.

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What is Neuroinclusive Coaching?
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What is Neuroinclusive Coaching?

At Harmonic Divergence we are more than academic coaches, life coaches or ADHD Coaches. What distinguishes us from other coaching practices is the broad neurodiversity affirming lens and our professional and lived experience. This is why we define our coaching as neuroinclusive coaching. So, what is neuroinclusive coaching?

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Meaning Behind the Name
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Meaning Behind the Name

Read the story behind the meaning of the name Harmonic Divergence. Learn a bit more about Camil (founder), their journey of self discovery and what is the relation between math, music, and embracing neurodiversity.

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